What is forgiveness to you?

Humans are not God. If you forgive somebody that doesn't automatically mean that you will also forget what hap pend, you just chose to not bring it up with them again. You may not want to ociated with them but that doesn't necessarily mean its because of only that instance. The idea is not to keep making them feel guilty about it by bringing that up or reminding them of it regularly. I may be part of forgiveness not to ociate with them to avoid reminding them of it.