Heartbroken need help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!…

Hi,really need an advice on how to move on. I met my boyfriend about 7 months ago, everything was going great, we shared the same values, we talked about our future and what we wanted, he introduced me to his family and i did the same, my family loved him, and his family adored me. I really opened my heart and fell in love. After few months into the relationship he moved in with me temporarily, i was very caring i cooked, cleaned and was a good girlfriend. one day i got a text from him saying he needed a break. I thought we were probably moving too fast and that could be overwhelming. I later found out he was seeing someone else. He begged, apologized and broke up with the other girl. A month after that i went through his phone a saw a text saying i miss u even more, i confronted him and he said it was just an old female friend. Two days after we went out for dinner talked and had a nice evening. he then told me he was going out to town to see his brother, my intuition told me other wise, i called the number the text came from there was no response, 30mins later i got a call back from the number it was a female (another one) she said she was his ex and that he was right there beside her and that the phone was on speaker that i should tell him what i wanted to tell him. First of all i was shocked cos i thought he was out of town. He then answered the phone with her beside him saying: i thought i told you four months ago that i don't want to be with you. I was speechless cos i was with him the night before and we just had dinner, he told me he loved me and we even talked about traveling together for a vacation 3week from that day. I said you just left my place last night what are you talking about, he denied it saying he did not see me and was not with me, and then his ex said well "you are out of the picture and i'm in, so stop calling cos you're psycho".... cut story short i found out it was his ex (first love) that dumped and broke his heart a year ago, they dated for about 2years and she has cheated on him all through their relationship apperantly when she heard he was in a relationship, she decided she now wants him back. I had most of his belongings in my apartment because after that incident he never called. Last night he called saying he wanted to come get his stuff, i told him he was welcome to do that. He came over got his stuff and never apologized all he said was i should have told you i was still in love wth my ex. At this point i feel very hurt, i feel like everything we've shared was all a lie, i have so many unanswered questions, i don't know what to do at this point. I know it's so easy to say move on, but i really did love him, and in my heart i'm waiting for some kind of explainatation and apology. I don't know if i will ever get that. Pls i need advice how? should i move on? what should i think? is he just a heartless person or is he being controlled? what do i do? talking is not the an option cos he is unreachable. He still has my apartment keys i've asked for it he said he will send it, but has'nt. i don't want to call him asking cos he'll think i'm trying to indirectly get back with him. Need some advice. What kind of person is this guy? this was not the person i fell in love with.